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Sunday, 05 August 2007

  • White on Pink

    It's different and surreal and I really don't like it. I'm sitting here fueled by whatever a lack of sleep is called and mountain dew aged with warmth to the point that it's no longer mountain, nor dew-- plus it takes like shit. If I was smart, I'd sleep, but I'm not tired and I'm down to my last string, which is, and I apologize, writing. I'd draw something instead if I thought I could right now. This really is a strange feeling and if you focus long enough it's almost like a roller-coaster. If you stop moving and close your eyes you feel like you're leaning forward and about to fall, which, actually to this point has kept my eyes open.. at least I don't keep them closed long enough to see if I really fall. Does that make sense? I don't think you can draw that.

    Last night was fine, I thought.. for awhile. Just, what I assumed was a small fight about something that had happened the night before. I apologized for it at the time, quite a few times, and my apology was accepted and I was told not to worry about it and that it 'wasn't a big deal'.. So when it got brought back up last night I felt bad again.. It's not like I did something to intentionally cause a fight.. I don't do things like that. So I tried to apologize again and explain that I didn't mean it. I don't remember what was said next, it kind of blurs a little around this area, but before I knew it things seemed okay and my phone conversation was over before a 'goodnight' was said. So, as almost a joke I texted "Are you too mad at me to say goodnight?", and, sadly.. the answer I got was "..yeah".

    I panicked and the only response I could even think of mustering was "Oh.. I'll leave you alone then..". I didn't want to make things worse and, well.. I kind of already felt like a fuck-up..

    The room grew silent and I decided to lay down for awhile, still worried that I had done something horribly wrong and not realized it. I reached for the sleeve of my shirt and started pulling on it to take it off. Once my elbow was past the start of the sleeve, I grabbed the front of the shirt with my free hand and-- stopped. I had hit the "I Am Loved" pin I was wearing and it made a slight metallic buzz throughout the room. I slowly took the button off and then continued removing my shirt, then fell into a chair in the living room, transfixed upon it. It was dark but a slight light peering through the window illuminated the button as it rested between my fingers, and I read its message over and over again, as though it was some type of secret that I couldn't fully comprehend at a glance. And then my mind wandered to the mosquito infested hill where I got this button at, and all the warmth it had guaranteed. I thought of who I had gotten it from and how well their face fit into my hand, and how warm their skin was against min--

    My phone burst from it's silence both loud, and ready to do business. I don't remember the exact details of the text-message driven conversation that followed, but I got the idea. The idea that something about me wasn't exactly needed any more.. but I managed denied the apparently inevitable until morning. A "Please, just think this over first.. sleep on it", type of thing.. I don't know now if it helped or hurt my case, but all I'm ever really striving for are little pieces to grasp onto.. little pieces of hope. And I had found, even if just for a few hours. I again didn't get a 'goodnight', which is all the same to me since I didn't have one.

    Sleep was obviously out of the question, especially for a mind as worrying as mine. I just sat in that chair for a long time and clenched onto my button. My button. I knew what was going to happen the next day, but I kept hoping that maybe sleep would change an impulsive mind, or, as it were, an impulsive heart. So I sat there and wondered what was going to happen next, and thought that surely all of this couldn't have been caused by that fight.. it might not have been 'little', but it surely wasn't enough cause for leaving me.. So as the sun burst into the room and started to create heated spots on the carpet and windows, I realized that not only had I not moved for nine hours, but had ended up cutting myself on the pin on the back of the button. The blood on my hand was dry, and the blood on the button was dry, too, and I wondered when this had happened. As I took my button and hand over to a sink to was them off, though, my phone buzzed again. It never fails that as soon as one of my hands get wet, I get a text message. Franticly, I dried my hand off and checked my phone.

    My hope was short lived.

    "I'm awake.. : ("
    "Me too.. Still feel the same way..?"
    "..yeah.."

    That was all it took. Slowly from then the rest of the day managed to unfold. I think I missed some of it. Only one sentence really sticks out, though. There's only one that I just can't shake off because it's something I can't fix. Anything else I can work with, anything else I can deal with. If only it was something that I did wrong, if only the reason I got was that it was my fault.. but all I got was..


    "..I don't love you anymore.."


    ..stupid blood-spattered button in pink with white. You've been resting on the wrong heart..

Sunday, 15 April 2007

  • What's it's Like to be Awkward and Innocent

    It was glowing dimly on the other side of the room, but I'm sure I saw it. Another person with another cellphone, texting away. The concept used to be entirely lost on me until about 4 months ago, and now I've become one of those people. I give myself a little leniency though, because I'm sure that what I'm texting about between classes is a lot more pressing on my mind than the average person. Ah, shit, there I go speculating again.

    I asked her to put the phone away while she was in the theatre because "People are complaining and I don't want to have to throw you out, okay?". She consented, but in such a way that told me she'd do her best to 'hide it better'. I was of course okay with this, and returned back to my mundane tasks. Popcorn was low so I initiated what I'm henceforth calling 'the stance' and began to bag it. Then my mind raced again, back to that place that it keeps going; a place I keep telling it not to go but it doesn't even care what I think. I'm still bagging the popped-corn just as quickly as ever, and dishing up what's expected, but it's lifeless and second-nature to me. On the faint, somewhat greased over side of the actual popper, I can see a distorted reflection of myself and I am a little less than pleased by my appearance, but then I quickly remember that I don't really care because I don't really have anyone to impress.

    Screams come from the other side of the room, but I don't want to look back because kids have a tendency to upset me when they're not crying. The screams quickly get drowned out by other noises, most namely of which the flipping of the pinball flippers. They're quick and erratic and I realize that a child must be playing that, too, and I take a small amount of offense to it and I don't know why- maybe I'm just out for a fight, or I'd rather project my rage on to someone that means nothing to me as opposed to who I'm actually upset at. It's healthy to bottle up these types of feelings, right? I think I read that somewhere.

    Click, click, click, click, click. He isn't really playing the game but he did pay, so no one will complain. The crowd keeps growing and I'm not sure why; did we have something that people want finally? There's a breif gape of total silence which is quickly broken by bellowing from our new TVs: "Shooter, Coming this Spring". I hate TVs and I hate trailers. Is that healthy? And if it wasn't the TVs that broke up the quiet, then the burn that I distracted myself into getting on my forearm was enough to stop the silence in my mind. You'd think screaming curse words in your head would do little good, but it's actually quite therapeutic. Everything else became something very similar to a blur, but if I focused on it long enough I could piece together what happened. It wasn't anything important though, as none of this arguably is.


    I recall that more complaints about 'Ms. Cell-phone' arrived at me in more of a demanding 'it's her or us' kind of manner. I nodded, and told them I'd take care of it. As soon as the people were out of sight I debated about how much I really cared about telling this girl that I warned her. I thought "Man, I wish I had her number and I could just call her and yell into the phone". Exerting anger on someone is one thing- making the effort to find them again in a crowded room (A crowded room that I hate) is a completely different story. You bring her to me and I'll yell at her, otherwise..

    So I'm in this room again, this room that smells similar to depression with an erie red glow to it and a movie blaring just a tad bit too loud. She's about halfway down the right side with a friend of hers, and they're sitting in what I've decided have got to be my two favorite seats in the whole of our establishment. I get about halfway to her and get weak in the knees and as a burst of the rooms natrual odor attacks it's way into my nasal cavity I wonder just how worth it this is. I get to her row and sit right beside her and cross my legs, kind of put my arm on the back of her chair and wait for a moment. She looks over at me in disgust, which is a great look to get, and I lean my head towards her without actually making any type of eye-contact. I tell her that I warned her but if she just gives me her cell phone I'll let her stay and she can pick it up after the movie out. She agrees and apologizes a few times and I'm now the proud owner of a new cellphone.

    Kind of. I get out of the theatre and tuck it away under the counter and realize that the entire place is quiet, and better yet, empty. It's time to close and I go through the motions. Counting this, cleaning that, preparing everything for the next day. It's my favorite part of the day, not only because it means it's almost over, but the conversations had at the end of work are always better. Stories about fat kids and pregnancies and running away. Stories that aren't so personal that they're going to make things awkward, but stories that make you kind of forget that you have a problem to begin with. Problems don't stay gone unless solved, and pushing them under the rug doesn't do a lot of good. Though, the distractions are a nice escape to what life used to be like. Peaceful and carefree. A little lustful and a little hopeful and a lot of hopeless, but all for a good cause. Life.

    So.. apologizing doesn't change anything. I'm not sure if you're saying sorry for yourself or for my benefit, but I understand already. I know you're sorry. I wish 'sorry's could change the world and make everything okay, but the only thing that's going to fix anything is some type of effort. I guess this is where the 'sorry's are put the to test. If you're really sorry and if you really care you'll do something; anything, whatever you can. You'll try, there'll be an effort made that doesn't hurt. They're be something done that shows that you actually do care, that I'm not just worth thinking about when it's convenient.


    ...then again, I guess.. that these moments that you have when you do forget about me, when you're eating pizza and being carefree.. maybe those are your moments of distraction. Distraction from me, and maybe I'm the problem that needs to be solved. I guess I'm kind of the one in the wrong here, but. If you don't really care about 'solving me', then don't say you're sorry. And don't say it like you mean it if you don't, because that just gets my hopes up. Don't tell me that it'll be okay, that you'll save me from whatever I'm scared of and protect me from everything wrong in the world. Don't tell me that I matter and that this isn't to spite me.. Don't tell me I'm worth something and that you love me and will make sure neither of us ever has to say 'sorry' again.. unless you mean it.

    ~Sew

Sunday, 01 April 2007

  • Something Less than Depth

    My grandmother insists that I've changed, despite my constant attempts to persuade her otherwise. Even acting under the impression that something has changed, it's not as though explaining the situation in full to her, or anyone, is going to make getting through it any easier. Assuming of course that there is a way to get through it.

    I never quite understood the old "Talking about it will make you feel better" thing. It's not like explaining myself to someone is going to make the problem go away; it's not like talking about it is going to lessen the weight on my shoulders. I can't give my problems away to anyone else. ..and what's worse is if they started to worry about it too. Maybe not about it, but about me. That would just make me feel worse; it'd be like there were two things I couldn't do right: deal with my own problems and keep from making other people upset because of it.

    I say 'deal with problems' as if all problems can actually be dealt with in a semi-sophisticated manner. I don't like to be caught in 'waiting games', though that seems to be all I ever get caught up in. They're the best because there isn't anything you can do about them except for wait. Action, on my part, won't alter the course of the situation in the slightest; trust me, I know. I'm plaguedby something like selfishness and something like envy. Sadly, I don't think that stopping and reversing the situation will do any good for my conscience anymore. I guess the only action that I could have taken.. would have been to not take any action to begin with. 

    Ugh, what.

    I bought a standard composition book to keep all these thoughts that I've been having about this.. dilemma, I guess I'd call it, in. I promise myself that I'd only write in it and keep all the other thoughts I had on this matter to myself, yet I still find myself sitting here, writing this. I still find myself telling the two people that I really probably shouldn't be telling anything to about this to. Maybe that's because it's difficult. Because my stomach hurts like it did on 26th and I'm counting the hours again like some compulsive child who just doesn't know what's good for him.

    I could say more, but I shouldn't. I shouldn't have said anything, I guess...but I guess if I didn't think that talking about it would make me feel a little bit better- that talking about it would make it just the slightest bit easier, then I wouldn't have wrote this to begin with..

    That is, of course, assuming that there is a problem anyway.

    Which there isn't.

Saturday, 17 February 2007

  • I don't do words

    I don't do words. I haven't wrote anything like this in awhile, which is part of my problem. With direct, constant contact to the people you care about most, a tendency to spill words towards them- words that you probably should keep to yourself- can (and in my case) will arise. It used to be 'I should say that, that will make things better because it's true!', but before I'd get the chance to say it, I'd have time to think it over and realize that what I wanted to say was just awkward and dumb; the kind of thing that can ruin a person in the eyes of another. Sadly though, this instant communication device has caused me to be quick to react to the possiblity of blurting out these true, though all too awkward, things.

    I'm normally not like that. With anything (and anyone) else I would think before I speak. But I'm trying to be too quick to lay myself out there. Some things you shouldn't say, weither you feel them or not. I am by no means a violent person, but I think that my own stupidity and rash, quick actions has caused me to hurdle my cell phone into the ground not once, but twice, while abusing myself on the inside with a constant banter of "Why the fuck did you just say that?!". It's like..

    It's like I think a few words can change something. As though being completely honest to a driving, nagging force that assults you in the back of your mind all day will make a difference. People don't want the pure.



    Especially when you say it thirty fucking times a week.


    ..The sad part, I mean, the really sad 'doesn't make any goddamn sense' part of it all is that, at one point, I thought, 'If I don't say anything at all then things will stay the same!', so I was determined to not speak or speak as little as possible. It lasted for about 30 minutes. I quickly realized that saying nothing isn't any better than saying everything. But I've always been so sure that my words weren't good enough anyway, making every attempt at a step that I took a -1 instead of a positive anything.


    ..but it's probably just that I'm more than that one part I show at those moments.. Meaning it's not the part I think I should let known more that's liked about it, but the part that I normally am away from the messages.  So does that devaluate me as a whole, or do I just try too hard?


    Then again, I guess if knowing that the answer will always be the same, then continuing to try is stupidity.


    Though I'd rather be stupid and happy than aware and depressed. And I'm not sure what I am right now.


    ..but I don't do words.


    ~Sew

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